Postpartum Thriving
Tape this to the bathroom mirror!
by Vicki Elson, MA, CCE, CD www.birth-media.com Feel free to make copies.
After my baby is born I will:
Lie down and rest and enjoy my baby
as much as possible for the first two weeks, breathing deeply, relaxing my face, jaw, belly
Wash my hands a lot
and ask everybody else to wash their hands, too
Pay attention to my bleeding
I will call my midwife/doctor if I soak through more than one pad in one hour
Feel my uterus (womb)
it should be firm and grapefruit-sized or smaller
Pee a lot
even if I don’t feel like it – this will help my uterus (womb) return to nonpregnant size
Take my temperature
four times a day to make sure I don’t have an infection (it should be below 100.4)
Drink plenty of water
I’ll keep water handy by my bed, couch, rocking chair…
Eat lots of the healthiest food I can find
veggies, fruits, milk, proteins (meat, chicken, fish, yogurt), whole grains if available
I’ll avoid constipating foods like cheese and peanut butter for a few days
I will call my midwife or doctor immediately if:
My temperature is above 100.4
I have chills, or I feel like I have the flu (muscle aches, headache, fatigue)
I soak through more than one sanitary pad in one hour, or I worry about how much I’m bleeding
My lochia (bleeding) is foul-smelling (not just earthy), or I notice pus or gray-green discharge
My stitches don’t look or feel right (red, swollen)
I have trouble peeing
My uterus is not firm, or is bigger than a grapefruit
I have pain, tenderness, a hot spot, or a lump in my breast, or I have pain or swelling in my leg(s)
My breathing is fast, difficult, or odd in any way
I am nauseous, vomiting, constipated, or not hungry
I am anxious, restless, stressed, faint, dizzy, confused, overly sweaty, or overtired
I feel moody, lonely, out of control, unable to function
I notice frightening thoughts about harming myself or the baby
I am troubled by any weird symptoms or problems – I will CALL! I won’t be shy!
After two weeks I will:
Try to get out of the house and do something nice for myself every day
Stay connected with adult family and friends every day
Eat well and try to get some appropriate exercise every day
Vicki,
I am a nurse who does home visting childbirth education and offer doula and lactation services for a non-for-profit. I LOVE your materials! They are so spot on, down to earth, and functional…every pregnant woman should have this checklist ready for when they get home from the hospital. I like the suggestion of taping it to the mirror. Thank you for generously sharing 🙂